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Three Elements Needed for a Healing Funeral

At Heideman Hughes Mortuary we believe all funerals should have three essential elements that help families move through the healing process:

First, to provide a tribute to the life lived, we believe that all funerals should have a ceremony with religious or spiritual overtones.

Second, we believe there should be some form of public gathering so your family can receive the support of the community.

And Third, to mark a point of closure for the families, we believe there should be some form of a procession to the final resting place.

And finally, a healing funeral has to balance what you want for your service with what your family needs during their time of grief.

-Mark Heiner
Funeral Director/Advanced Planning Consultant
Heideman Hughes Mortuary

I’m a Mormon. Is it OK if I choose Cremation?

As an Advanced Planning Consultant and Funeral Director at Heideman Hughes Mortuary I often get asked:  “I’m a Mormon.  Is it OK if I choose Cremation?”

I’ve researched this question and found the following:

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormon) Quotes Concerning Cremation

Joseph Fielding Smith in Answers to Gospel Questions 1957 Volume 2, pages 99-102:  "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has never taken a definite stand on this [cremation] question.  Presumably no edict in relation to it will ever be taken.  The matter of burial of the dead, as far as the Church is concerned, is an individual or a family matter.  If any member of the Church should state in his will, or make any general statement, that he wished to be cremated, the Church authorities would not step in and interfere but would consider it something with which they had no official concern."

LDS (Latter-Day Saint) Cremation view (as reported in a Utah County paper The Provo Daily Herald Aug 2, 1999):  "There is a strong LDS culture here", Sundquist (a local funeral home owner) said, noting that the perception is that the church seems to frown on cremation.  The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints may be more understanding of cremations than people realize.  Dale Bills, a spokesman for the LDS Church said, "For Latter-Day Saints, normally cremation is not encouraged.  However, in some countries the law requires it.  The family of the deceased must decide whether to cremate the body, taking into account any laws governing burial or cremation.  "In other words, it's not encouraged, but it's not viewed as a sin, either.  If an LDS person is cremated or has a member of their family cremated, the church maintains a nonjudgmental stance.  “There is not anything in cremation that would cause a member of the church to be looked upon in disfavor in any way,” Bills said.  And it won't hurt that person's chances in the afterlife, either.  Some people may die in fires.  Some may be lost at sea.  Some may be cremated or buried.  In all cases, LDS theology has the same view about the remains.  "Our faith is that through Christ the blessings of the resurrection will be universal," Bills said.  "Body and spirit will be reunited for all who have lived."

General LDS Church Handbook (as of 2000) Book Number 1, page 156:  Normally cremation is not encouraged.  However in some countries the law requires it.  The family of the deceased must decide whether to cremate the body, taking into account the laws governing such.  Where possible the body of a deceased member who has been endowed should be dressed in temple clothing before the cremation.  A funeral service may be held.

Elder Boyd K. Packer 1988 General Conference talk on Funerals:  “Except where burial is prohibited by law, we are counseled [means: not doctrinal] to bury our dead.  There are important symbolic references to burial in the ordinance of baptism and elsewhere in the doctrines of the Church.”

I Have A Question Ensign Article 1991:  Cremation is a custom in various parts of the world.  Do 
Latter-day Saints practice it?  By Roger R. Keller, associate professor of Church history and doctrine at Brigham Young University:  Ultimately, after consultation with the Lord and with priesthood leaders, the family must decide what to do.  If the person has been endowed, some special instructions are available for the family from local priesthood leaders.  Even if a body is cremated, a funeral service may be held…In the end, however, we should remember that the resurrection will take place by the power of God, who created the heavens and the earth.  Ultimately, whether a person’s body was buried at sea, destroyed in combat or an accident, intentionally cremated, or buried in a grave, the person will be resurrected.  No clearer picture of God’s restorative powers can be found than Ezekiel’s vision of the valley of dry bones (see Ezekiel Chapter 37), in which he sees the bones gathered together and clothed with sinews and flesh by the power of God.  Nothing that is done to the body will in the end prevent the purpose of our Lord from being fulfilled.  Our bodies and our spirits will finally be reunited in the resurrection of the dead.

I welcome your comments, additional information, and/or questions regarding the same.

-Mark Heiner
Advanced Planning Consultant/Funeral Director
Heideman Hughes Mortuary and Crematorium
1037 East 700 South
St. George, Utah 84790
435-674-5000

Make sure your family has more answers than questions when planning a funeral

There are many advantages to planning a funeral ahead of time. By pre-planning, difficult decisions will not have to be made by your survivors during a time of grief and stress. You will be able to visit a potential resting site and have time to decide on and compare your options. Instructions can be left to guide your survivors so they know whether or not cremation is your preferred disposition. Your wishes can be put into writing to give your family direction when the time for the funeral comes. Let me help you pre-plan so your family can carry out your wishes.  Call me for a complimentary, no obligation consultation.

-Mark Heiner
Advanced Planning Counselor
Heideman Hughes Mortuary
Office:  435-674-5000
Mobile:  435-680-5073

Habitat for Humanity of Southwest Utah's Hard Hat & Black Tie Affair

ST. GEORGE, UT (April 26, 2012) –Mark your calendars for the Hard Hat & Black Tie Affair on Saturday, May 12^th from 6:00 pm to 9:00 pm presented by Habitat for Humanity of Southwest Utah.  Join the Friends of Habitat for Humanity at the Best Western Plus Abbey Inn Tuscany Room for an evening of entertainment, fine dining, and both silent and live auctions.  Auction items include autographed images from Utah Jazz players Paul Millsap and Al Jefferson, tickets to several Las Vegas area shows such as Blue Man Group® and Phantom! A Las Vegas Spectacular®, a Thomas Kinkade print, ‘Guitar’ and ‘Violin’ metal artwork from Deveren Farley and much, much more!

The Hard Hat & Black Tie Affair will begin with music provided by harpist Kathleen Whiteside and the evening’s entertainment will be provided by Brodie Perry and Samantha Myers from The Stage Door.  Formal attire is suggested and hard hats are recommended.  Tickets are $75 per person and are available at the Habitat for Humanity of Southwest Utah Office, Habitat for Humanity of Southwest ReStore, or by visiting www.habitatswu.eventbrite.com.  For more information or to reserve a table, please call (435) 674-7669.

About Habitat for Humanity of Southwest Utah

Habitat for Humanity of Southwest Utah is a nonprofit ecumenical housing organization that seeks to work in partnership with God and people to build homes, communities and hope. For more information, to donate or to volunteer, please call the office at (435) 674-7669 or visit www.facebook.com/SWURestore.  Each house built, each family served, each life forever changed starts with one person that decided to make a difference.

Myths Surrounding Cremation

Great Article I came across about the Myths surrounding Cremation

-M

Editor’s note: The following is the first in a series of columns from Kasi Welch Baker, of Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home & Crematory. The columns, which will run monthly, deal with issues families must deal with after a loved one passes away.

Recently, I had a family come to me after a loved one had died. This is not uncommon, as I am a funeral director. But this time, a cremation already had taken place. “What can I do for you?” I asked. They responded that they were having difficulty coping with the loss. Mom had set up a simple cremation plan and “didn’t want a fuss” made over her. They followed her wishes and had her cremated without a service. Now, her kids and grandkids were having trouble letting go. “I think we need to have a memorial,” said the daughter. “Can you help us?”
I was more than happy to help. Together, we planned a very meaningful and personal service. Family members and friends from all over came to pay their respects. Everyone was so grateful to the family for holding the service and allowing them to be a part of it. “I never realized how many lives my mother had touched,” the daughter said to me after the memorial. “It was a beautiful service.”
All of this got me to thinking about some of the misconceptions there are about cremation. Here are a few of the myths that I have come across:

Myth: You don’t need a service with cremation.

Truth: Cremation does not replace a family’s need for closure. It is simply an alternative to other forms of final disposition. When a death occurs, a service is still important for the family to find closure and healing.

Myth: If you want to be cremated, just tell your loved ones. That’s really the only decision they have to make.

Truth: When a death occurs, there are roughly 100 decisions your closest loved ones have to make. One of those decisions is whether you will be cremated or not. There are many, many other decisions that must be made in addition to cremation. For example, most people don’t realize that you can have a viewing with the body present, then a funeral service followed by cremation. Many times families choose to have a viewing, then a memorial service without the body present, and then a burial of the urn at the cemetery afterward. There are so many options with cremation, it makes it a great option for families who need versatility. Having a viewing with the body present (if it is possible to have one) is a significant time for the bereaved who still are coming to grips with the death. If cremation takes place too soon, some family members and friends may suffer because they feel they never had a chance to say goodbye. All of these issues are important, and so very helpful if they are planned out ahead of time with love and care.

Myth: Cremation is much more inexpensive than burial.

Truth: The cost of a funeral or memorial mostly depends on all the options that are selected, not just whether cremation is chosen or not. I have seen elaborate services that ended in cremation, and I have seen extremely simple burials that were very cost-effective. The cost of a funeral is usually dependent on the type of services and merchandise that are selected.

Myth: With cremation, you don’t need a headstone or grave marker.

Truth: While it is true that it is not necessary to erect a headstone when cremation takes place, one thing people sometimes fail to consider is that an equivalent to a headstone may be needed. After all, what is the purpose of a headstone? For one, it provides a physical location for family members to visit, reflect and remember. Second, it is important for generations to come. With the rise in popularity of genealogies, it is very likely that descendants may wish to visit the grave of a great- grandparent or great-great-grandparent. We suggest that a portion of the cremated body be reserved for burial in a columbarium, cremation garden or family plot. That way, generations from now, a record of the person’s life will be left behind.

As a funeral director, my job is to help families discover the choices that are right for them. I don’t believe there is a right or wrong answer. My goal is simply to help families understand the choices they have available to them and decide what will be best for those left behind. If there is one message I’d like to leave you with, it would be to please talk to your family about these kinds of things. As Americans, we typically don’t like to talk about death and end-of-life issues. However, with one simple conversation, one simple call or one meeting with a preplanning specialist or funeral director, you can make such a difference in the lives of those you care about most.


Read more: Families need to separate truth and myth when it comes to cremation - Mywesttexas.com: Life http://www.mywesttexas.com/life/article_9c76dbb0-8110-11e1-b202-0019bb2963f4.html#ixzz1rl1kAmo8
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Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best

Nobody wants to think about the day they leave this life. There’s too much left to enjoy, too many people to share feelings with, and to laugh with. Still, we all have to leave sometime. And the best gift you can give the people you love are the good memories of you; not the stress of making funeral arrangements, and having to find a way to pay for them.  In just one afternoon you could have the peace of mind knowing everything is taken care of - each detail exactly the way you want it, so your funeral will be a tribute to the people you love as well as to the life you lived.

It’s simple, and begins with our Personal Wishes Organizer. We understand it can be difficult to get started. So we’ve made it easy with this step-by-step guide that helps you through the process.

Besides relieving stress, anxiety, and confusion, planning ahead lets you create the perfect memorial for your family.

For your complimentary Personal Wishes Organizer, please contact me for a private, no obligation consultation.

-Mark Heiner

Pre-Planning Consultant

Heideman Hughes Mortuary

435-674-5000

Funerals - More Answers than Questions

Life’s Moments... Memories of home, family, friends. Those special moments we recapture when time seems to stand still and we find ourselves considering just how blessed we are.

Mark Heiner and the staff at Heideman Hughes Mortuary are committed to helping bereaved family members and loved ones recreate those memories in their time of need. Compassionate understanding is the hallmark of our unique community service programs. We know first-hand just how difficult making funeral arrangements at a time of need can be, both emotionally and financially.

We can help you put together a plan in advance that will leave your loved ones with guidance and support at a time when they need it most. This will ensure that things are in order so that there will be more answers than questions. An important part of a pre-arranged funeral plan is discussing and recording some of your “life’s moments.” This will also assist you in helping your family create and be part of a personal and meaningful service, where the stories of a unique life will be shared.

To learn more about why, when and how to plan ahead, frequently asked questions, funding options, and more.  Please call us to schedule a confidential complimentary consultation in your home or at our location, 435-674-5000.

Mark the Mortician - Advanced Funeral Planning Reduces Stress

It’s not an easy subject, but seniors and adults in general may want to start talking about their funeral plans today.  After reading the news/obituaries for Davy Jones, Andrew Breitbart, (only three years my senior) and others, many people like me will have a reality check and may wish to inquire about and possibly plan their own funerals so their families won’t have to.  Seniors preplan and prepay for their funerals for a variety of reasons, such as estate planning or Medicaid purposes, but I have to say the reason I hear most often is to relieve their survivors from the many details and decisions associated with arranging a funeral.  Death can be a very stressful time. Not only is there grieving, but often traveling, legal issues and the many decisions that must be made in a short period of time.  If you choose to prepay for your funeral selections, then the financial considerations have been addressed as well.  Planning ahead can ease emotional and financial stress, and also provides you with the time needed to make practical and detailed decisions that reflect your preferences.  It puts you in control and ensures your wishes will be known, and it spares your loved ones the anxiety of making critical decisions at a time when they are least prepared. But, most importantly, is the peace of mind in knowing that when the time does come, you have eliminated the emotional and financial burden that occurs when arrangements have not been made in advance.

If you've got questions about advanced funeral planning, give me a call, I'd be happy to help.

-Mark

435-674-5000

What would you do if your spouse charged $7,755.00 on your credit card?

What would you do if your spouse charged $7,755.00 on your credit card?

Anything? Nothing?

Unfortunately, many of us will be the ones responsible for the charges, posthumously.

$7,755.00 was the average cost of a traditional funeral in 2011 according to the National Funeral Directors Association.

Many of you know my passion for advanced funeral planning because I see too many families bury their loved one via Visa, MasterCard or American Express, further complicating and adding financial stress to the existing emotional stress and grief accompanying the loss of a family member.

Advanced funeral planning isn't a topic many of us want to think about, however most people can agree that planning for what happens after your death will reduce the stress of grieving loved ones. It’s easy to understand how making decisions now about your funeral arrangements can help assure those left behind that your wishes are being honored.

You may not realize, though, that preplanning your final arrangements also makes good financial sense. There a few key ways in which funeral preplanning can impact your financial bottom line.

Avoid Grief Overspending

Planning your final arrangements in advance ensures your funeral will be conducted according to your wishes, which will ease the burden on your loved ones to make choices they think you’d want. But advance planning also helps your loved ones avoid spending on things not important to you by communicating exactly which merchandise and services you want for your funeral.

Find the Quality and Value You Want

If you're like me, you probably shop around to find the car, new electronic gadget or vacation that delivers the quality and features that are right for you, so why don’t more people do the same when it comes to funeral providers?

Contacting different funeral homes is an important part of planning a funeral. Compare options and services to find the right fit for your final wishes. Our community, St. George, Utah, is home to the following funeral providers:

Heideman Hughes Mortuary - 435-674-5000

Metcalf Mortuary - 435-673-4221

Spilsbury Mortuary - 435-673-2454

McMillan Mortuary - 435-688-8880

Pine View Mortuary (Metcalf) - 435-986-4222

SereniCare Funeral Home - 435-986-2085

Comparison shopping now allows you to feel secure you’re receiving the quality and value you deserve.

Lock in Today’s Prices

If you choose to fund your advanced funeral plan, you can lock in today’s prices for products and services that will be more expensive in the future. It is important to work with a funeral professional to understand the laws that regulate and protect advanced funeral funds. You need to feel comfortable that your funds are secure in an insurance policy or in trust with a reliable provider.

Take Advantage of Additional Benefits

You may be eligible for additional funeral benefits if you are a military veteran or civil servant. By planning your funeral, you can learn about these benefits in advance of your death so your loved ones will have all the information they need at the time of your passing. Our entire staff can provide information regarding additional benefits for which you may be eligible.

The reasons to make your final arrangements in advance are valid for everyone, no matter your age or financial status. While saving your loved ones from difficult decisions at an already difficult time, advance funeral planning also makes good financial sense. In today’s economic climate, it’s good to know that your final expense is one you can control.

If you would like to lean more about advanced funeral planning please contact me at 435-674-5000 for a no cost/obligation consultation at your home or my office.

-Mark Heiner

Heideman Hughes Mortuary

St. George, Utah

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Merry Christmas from my favorite petrol heads

Transmission - BBC Top Gear

Plan Early for Last Days

This is a great article written by Mark Russell reminding us all about the importance of being prepared.

My father's death in October just before his 82nd birthday inspired me to focus on a topic rarely discussed at length but of vital importance: the need for advanced planning for the end of life. This is particularly true for working-class people such as my father, who in his 61 years of marriage to my mother always emphasized the need to be prepared.

Although many aspects of his departure were prepared in advance, there are always unseen and additional expenses as well as inflation. There is also a strong need for good and clear communication with those entrusted to caring for the needs of your loved ones as they transition to eternity. This applies not only to funeral and burial providers but legal issues as well.

Even a modest funeral service and burial can be costly to families of limited means. Without proper advance planning, grief can override rational decisions related to affordability and the wishes of the deceased.

My father was fond of saying that "funerals are for the living" and cautioned us that no one's casket was heaven-bound so we should not be extravagant in dealing with his death.

This is not an issue solely for those of advanced age. Death can strike anyone at any time of any age. A quick survey of my 40ish peers found few had a will, instructions or powers of attorney for a designated person in case they became impaired and could not make their own end-of-life decisions. Perhaps the most famous person of recent memory to have committed this oversight was the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. The legacy of that oversight still plagues his surviving children to this day.

For low-income individuals and families these necessary arrangements can be even more burdensome because they often lack the financial means to procure legal assistance. This void represents a great opportunity for the Indiana legal community to fulfill its pro bono requirements. The Indianapolis Neighborhood Christian Legal Clinic does offer this type of service for low-income residents as well as preventive legal education workshops on family law and other matters.

See you on the other side, Dad.

The full article can be viewed here:  http://www.indystar.com/article/20111213/OPINION13/112130306/Mark-Russell-Plan-early-for-last-days?odyssey=tab%7Cmostpopular%7Ctext%7COPINION

Christmas won't be the same this year

For bereaved persons, it is important to acknowledge up front that it
won’t be the same this year. Things are not the same. Someone pivotal
in our lives is gone. Moreover, we are not the same persons. Death forever
changes the self we were before. Therefore, we cannot expect to “buck
up” and act as if nothing has changed. Everything has changed.

My monthly newsletter entitled "Stepping Stones" is a collection of short stories and poetry designed to aide those families and individuals currently grieving the loss of a loved one.

Grief During Christmas - How to Cope

Business & Technology | Money tip: Tips for budgeting a funeral | Seattle Times Newspaper

It's quite rare that an article involving Advanced Funeral Planning makes a paper such as the Seattle Times.

It's good information, however I disagree with their advice to not fund a Funeral Plan. I know I'm biased, but look at the benefits: You get to take time now to make wise financial decisions for the future; make your decisions free of emotional stress and pressure; find a comfortable payment plan that fits your needs and budget; benefit from the convenience of funeral insurance (subject to qualification); enjoy portability for your plan should you relocate; and have peace of mind and no regrets.

Business & Technology | Money tip: Tips for budgeting a funeral | Seattle Times Newspaper:

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Live with Kelly: Woman Buried With Crucifix Necklace

Live With Kelly: Woman Buried With Crucifix Necklace

News Around The World Story #3:
An elderly woman on Long island was buried 3 weeks ago with a crucifix necklace she was given for her first holy communion when she was a young girl. Her children wanted her bodied exhumed to get the necklace back because she was only supposed to wear it for the viewing and not be buried in it because it was a family heirloom. Kelly was conflicted with story because she felt, on one hand, maybe grandmom should keep it because she could hold on to it in everlasting life. Neil thought different and stated that—and I quote—uh, maybe at that point, the kids should just let grandma keep it! “ What eventually happened?” NPH asked. Kelly stated that they’re going to exhume the body. NPH thought it kind of creepy and weird now, considering they were talking about it on television.

What do you think? Grandma should keep it, as Kelly believed or just creepy and weird, like NPH thought. Leave a comment.

Advance Funeral Planning News

The Press Association: People write own epitaph under plan

Coping with Grief during the Holidays

My monthly newsletter, helping individuals cope during the days and
months following a loss, until the hurt begins to subside, strength returns and spirits rise.

Stepping Stones - November 2011

God Bless,

-Mark
435-680-5073
mark@serenicare.com

FAQs Regarding Cremation - Cremation Center of Southern Utah

Q: What is Cremation?

A: Cremation is the process of reducing human remains to its basic elements in the form of bone fragments through flame, heat and vaporization (usually 1400 – 1800 degrees Fahrenheit for two hours or more). Cremation occurs in a special kind of furnace called a cremation chamber or retort. The resulting bone fragments are further reduced in size through a mechanical process and are referred to as “cremated remains”. It may surprise many to learn that ashes are not the final result since cremated remains have neither the appearance nor the chemical properties of ashes. After processing, the cremated remains are placed in an urn or other container suitable for memorialization, transport, or interment. Depending upon the size of the deceased’s skeletal makeup, there are normally four to eight pounds of cremated remains.

Q: What should I do when a death occurs?

A: The Cremation Center of Southern Utah should be notified at the time of death. We are available 24-hours a day, 365-days-a-year, and will help you determine if the police or medical examiner should become involved. Our staff will respond to the location of passing and receive the loved one into our professional care. We will answer your questions and address your concerns.

Q: Does the Cremation Center of Southern Utah have their crematory on site?

A: Yes. We have on-site the most modern and technically advanced cremation equipment available. Your loved one is always under our professional care. We are the only cremation center in southern Utah. We are locally owned and operated by licensed funeral professionals with years of experience.

Q: May I inspect the facilities and as well as the crematory?

A: Absolutely. We offer a unique open door policy. You may visit our facility and take a private tour. We believe everyone should have the guarantee that cremation is performed in a proper and respectful manner.

Q: Can family members witness the cremation?

A: Yes.  We allow family members the opportunity to witness the cremation. As part of our open door policy, we believe you have the right to be involved in the cremation process if you so choose. Ours is the only facility in the area that provides a comfortable witnessing room. Our goal is to provide you with peace of mind and respect your chosen level of involvement.

Q: Can I still choose to hold a visitation or a funeral service along with cremation?

A: Absolutely. There are many options associated with cremation. Cremation does not prevent or replace any type of service. You may choose to hold a visitation, funeral service, memorial service, or a celebration of life. Simple or elaborate, traditional or contemporary, almost anything is possible. The Cremation Center is available to oversee every detail of a ceremony that will help you and your family create a meaningful and healing experience for all those involved.

Q: Are there certain religions that do not approve of cremation?

A: Most major religions readily accept cremation, with the exception of Islam and Orthodox Judaism. Today, all of the Christian denominations allow cremation. The Catholic Church approves of cremation but advocates the interment of the cremated remains in a cemetery. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints does not discourage cremation and leaves the decision up to the individual.

Q: How can I be assured that I receive the correct remains?

A: We utilize identification and tracking systems throughout the entire cremation process to insure the highest standard of accuracy. This step-by-step tracking system incorporates a uniquely numbered stainless steel identification medallion that remains with the body and the cremated remains throughout the entire process. The medallion is retained with the remains and placed in an urn.

Q: Are cremations performed individually?

A: Yes. It is unethical to cremate more than one decedent at a time, and state law enforces this rule. Also, due to the design of the cremation chamber, it is virtually impossible to cremate more than one body at a time.

Q: What should I do with the cremated remains?

A: There are several options:

Burial – Cremated remains may be interred in a cemetery. This is the most common choice for disposition – about sixty (60) percent nationwide. This option provides a permanent resting place for family and future generations to visit as often as they wish. A permanent marker or plaque may be inscribed with personal information.

Other options include: Keeping the remains at home in an urn, scattering the remains, dividing the remains among several friends or family members, or choosing a unique option, such as incorporating the remains into fireworks, artwork, or a coral reef.

Q: Is embalming required with cremation?

A: No. Unless the decedent is to be prepared for a visitation or service, the body does not have to be embalmed.

Still have questions regarding cremation?  Give me a call at 435-680-5073 or contact me via email.

-Mark Heiner

Prearrangement Consultant

Cremation Center of Southern Utah

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Ask a Mortician

It's not everyday conversation nor is it the topic of too many family dinner discussions, however after being on youtube for just three days, "Ask a Mortician" has recorded 40K+ hits.

This just confirms to me that the questions involving Death, Dying, Mourning, Funeral Rites, Rituals, and Customs are out there and people are dying to ask.

I came across this video by and through Guy Kawasaki's twitter feed (His headlines have always intrigued me) so I clicked and this is what I found:

Ask a Mortician on youtube

After watching her video I immediately subscribed to her channel and am waiting with baited breath for "Ask a Mortician" - Episode Two.